A sensual massage
A Sensual rubdown is the kind of approach that goes wonderfully well with a romantic candlelight. Take her out for an intimate dinner and then make your move, but instead of getting straight to the intercourse, surprise her with a massage. Let her know that her body is driving you crazy and that you want to touch every single part of her. This is a time to put your worries and problems aside and focus only on making her feel sexy, hot and wanted. Sensual massage is not a quick affair, but it takes a long time and it involves a lot of touching in the most intimate places. It’s not the kind of massage you would give to just any person because it’s meant to bring out passion, awaken the senses and come to an explosive end with a fulfilling orgasm.
You probably have to keep a romantic CD handy in order to build up the mood. Massage supplies also include incense and candles, the massage oil and some clean towels to wipe off all sticky and messy stuff at the end of the massage session. You have to start by massaging gently because the first thing you want is to help your partner relax and get into the right mood. Tease her a bit by playing with the erogenous zones, but avoid the vagina and the breasts. Go slow and focus on long, relaxed strokes while rubbing your body against her body. Find your pace and make sure you don’t leave out any part of her body.
And when you finally reach the most important part of the massage, don’t forget that you should not go for it like a maniac. Maintain the same tempo and remember to ask her for permission first. Some people don’t appreciate that level of attention and they might feel very uncomfortable to go all the way. So you should start by asking her how she feels and if she’s enjoyed the massage so far and then you can ask her if she likes you to go further. If she says yes, massage her private parts (gently)starting with the outer lips and finishing with the clitoris and G-spot. If you’re both comfortable with the use of toys, use a vibrator on her vagina, she won’t mind.